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Thinking About Buying a Home? Ask the Neighbors These Questions First

Mon, 25 Sep 2023 21:34:09 GMT

Thinking About Buying a Home? Ask the Neighbors These Questions First

When you tour a property, it’s pretty easy to know whether or not you want to live in the home. But it can be harder to get a read on the neighborhood.

The good news? There’s a way to get insights into the neighborhood and whether it’s the right fit for you, as long as you’re willing to get over any sense of shyness, walk up to a neighbor, and ask some questions.

But what questions should you ask? A recent article from realtor.com outlined questions you should ask the neighbors before making an offer on a home, including:

How would you describe the area, and what is it like living here? It can be hard to get a true feel for an area and what it would be like to live there. Asking the neighbors for their insights into the neighborhood and what it’s like to live there can give you key insights you’d never be able to get in the limited time it takes to tour a property.

If you could change anything at all about the neighborhood, what would it be? A home and neighborhood may seem perfect, but even the “perfect” places have their drawbacks. Asking the neighbors what they would change about the neighborhood will give you insight into some of the potential negative aspects of living in the neighborhood. And from there, you can decide whether those downsides are issues you can live with or if they’re a dealbreaker.

How do people like to socialize in this neighborhood? There’s no “right” way to interact with your neighbors. Some people hope to become lifelong friends with their neighbors, while others prefer to keep the relationship distant. In a perfect world, you’d move into a neighborhood where people have the same social expectations as you do. The best (and easiest) way to find out if they do, is simply asking your potential future neighbors before you make an offer.

Avoid These Mistakes if You’re Buying a Property and Plan to Use it as a Vacation Rental

site-KDxXBQ — Mon, 25 Sep 2023 21:34:07 GMT

Avoid These Mistakes if You’re Buying a Property and Plan to Use it as a Vacation Rental

Considering buying a vacation home as a rental? It’s a different process from buying a primary home, and if you don’t know what you’re doing, it can be easy to make a few (potentially expensive!) mistakes along the way.

So what, exactly, are those mistakes, and more importantly, how do you avoid them?

A recent article from realtor.com outlined common mistakes buyers make when purchasing a vacation home as a way to earn income, including:

Not checking local rental regulations. Not all areas allow short-term or vacation rentals. If you’re buying a property with the intention to rent it out as a vacation home, it’s important to understand local rental regulations and how they impact your ability to make an income from your vacation home. If you’re not sure about local regulations, ask your real estate agent.

Not choosing the right management company. The vacation property management company you hire will play a huge role in how successful your rental ultimately is. They are generally in charge of everything from marketing to customer service to ensuring the home is clean for all new visitors, which is why it’s so important to do your research and choose a reputable company. When choosing a property management company, ask plenty of questions, like how they plan to market your property, their cleaning processes, and how they handle home repairs. If possible, you might also ask to speak to some of their current clients to get a sense of what it’s like to work with them.

Shopping for yourself rather than the vacationers. As mentioned, buying a home for yourself and buying a property to use as a short-term vacation rental are completely different processes. Make sure that you buy a property that makes sense as a rental and don’t let your personal preferences cloud your judgment. For example, according to the article, one and three-bedroom properties are typically more attractive to vacationers than two-bedroom properties.

How to Avoid Fighting about Money If You’re an Unmarried Couple Living Together

Tue, 19 Sep 2023 06:37:54 GMT

How to Avoid Fighting about Money If You’re an Unmarried Couple Living Together

Whether you rent or own a place to live, having a roommate can certainly help make it easier to afford. Typically, if you have a roommate, you probably just split the costs 50/50. If there’s a third roommate, everyone pays a third. A fourth cuts it down to each person contributing 25% to the communal costs. Regardless of whether you’re best friends or mere acquaintances, there’s somewhat of a business relationship to it.

But what about when your roommate is your significant other?

If you’re going to live with someone else to share the cost of living, why not live with the person you love? Years ago, it was less socially acceptable for people to live with their “better half” before tying the knot. But times have changed, and more and more people are choosing to live together before getting married… if they even ever get married.

So, if you’re committed to each other and feel confident you’re in it for the long haul together, renting or owning a home together makes as much sense (if not more) than sharing a place and expenses with any other roommates you could choose.

But, splitting the bill might be a little more complicated of an issue and topic than it would be with someone who is just a roommate.

37% Feel Like Their Relationship Isn’t Financially Equal

According to a recent study by the Thriving Center of Psychology, 3 out of 5 unmarried couples live together before getting married. In particular, 65% of Millennials cohabitate, and 35% of the younger Gen Z generation are also doing so.

While 85% of them said they moved in together because they wanted to, 61% of Millennials and 39% of Gen Z said that finances also played a part in their decision. But half of them aren’t splitting the costs equally, which makes 37% of those surveyed feel like the relationship is financially unequal.

The good news is that most couples are happy with their decision to live together. However, 29% wish they had communicated their expectations more clearly before moving in together.

Steps You Can Take To Avoid Letting It Become an Issue for You

It’s great that most report being happy, but money and finances are often the source of issues for couples — married or not — which can lead to breakups.

Buying or renting a home together is a contract, much like marriage, and both people need to do their part to make it work. Well, technically nobody needs to do anything… but when one person feels like they’re doing more than the other person, that’s where things get dicey.

So let’s take a look at some steps you can take to avoid letting money become an issue in your relationship and home together.

Remember, you’re in it together for better or worse, in good times and in bad, even if you aren’t married.

Just because you haven’t strolled down the aisle and exchanged vows and rings, doesn’t mean you’re off the hook for being there for each other no matter what life throws at you. And sometimes in life, one person earns more than the other person. How much one of you earns isn’t the only thing they bring to the home and relationship.

Be considerate of how the other person might feel.

It would actually be pretty odd if you both earned the same amount of money. So the chances are one of you will earn more than the other. It doesn’t matter which side of that equation you’re on, it’ll come with some potential emotions and perceptions. If you earn more, respect that your mate might really feel bad about that, or wish they could contribute more. If you earn less, respect that your partner could feel like they carry a lot of the financial weight on their shoulders. Being aware and considerate of how the other person feels can go a long way.

Communicate with each other.

It might sound basic, but communication can help overcome many issues couples have. Unfortunately, it’s not something everyone is good at. But if you can agree to communicate openly and honestly ahead of time, it will likely help you avoid little grievances building up inside and coming out once the damage is done.

Openly discuss and decide how much each person can and should contribute.

Even if one person earns more than the other, maybe you can decide to base how much money you spend on rent or a mortgage so that each of you can chip in 50/50. But if not, or you just decide you want a better place than that would afford you, discussing it and making that financial decision together is at least out in the open. To avoid one person feeling like they’re bearing more weight than the other, perhaps the one who can’t contribute as much financially takes on more of the responsibilities around the home or some other form of give and take.

Put it in writing.

Setting finances and each person’s responsibilities in stone might not seem romantic or feel right for every couple, but it can be a useful way to keep you both on the same page and not let things get too out of control. It’s easy to claim months or years down the road that one of you never said or promised something when it was just a conversation that occurred in the past. But if you document it and even revisit the agreement on a yearly basis, it can serve as a way to address how each of you are feeling and help you maintain a happy relationship and home.

Ideally, this is something you’re reading before moving in together and you can take these steps ahead of time. But if you’re already living together and haven’t had these conversations, there’s no time like the present.

The Takeaway:

Many Millennial and Gen Z couples choose to live together before getting married. While most report being happy with the decision, a survey recently revealed that 37% of them feel like the relationship is financially unequal, and 29% wish they communicated their expectations more clearly before moving in together.

Before moving in together, or before things reach a boiling point if you already live together, make sure you have open discussions about finances and how much and what, each of you will be responsible for in the home.